关于苦难,我们已经说的太多,现在让我们谈谈幸福

 

有一次和朋友聊天,谈到叔本华的苦难哲学,他说苦难源于对幸福的追求,当无法得到或满足时是痛苦的,而达到目标后发现只有新的目标或者无尽的空虚,所以,人生是一场苦难。

当我凌晨四点钟因为喉咙刺痛而醒来,我发现,苦难会让人倍加珍惜寻常的幸福。

矫情地给妈妈发信息,“如果人鱼公主获得行走权利的代价是失声,那我宁愿回到大海身边。”

回到家里,迎接我的是妈妈眼中怜爱的目光,还有满满一桌精心菜肴,蛋黄焗南瓜、上汤娃娃菜、排骨年糕、南瓜皮蛋牛肉粥。以及能想到的一切妥帖的照顾,冰糖炖雪梨、暖好的被窝、各种药、切好的水果……当你发现有人把你的感冒看成是最重要的事,感动这个词汇都变的苍白。在餐桌上想到这里一阵鼻酸,掉头掩饰眼眶泛起的泪水。

如果不是生病,可能我还会像机器一样运转下去,也就体味不到这样简单温情的幸福是多么来之不易。其实每一件小事中都有积极的意义,苦难中又何尝不是藏着幸福呢。

多久了呢,没有这样的安宁。洒满阳光的窗台边,膝头放着最喜欢的悦己静静翻阅,困意袭来就顺其自然的睡去,没有schedule,没有重要还是紧急事项,一整个春天的下午,都是属于我的柔软时光。

似乎每个阶段都有一些不得不忙的事情,忙比赛,忙托业,忙找实习,忙开会……在可以预知的未来,还会忙工作,忙结婚,忙照顾家庭……又回到那个古老的问题,忙着生,还是忙着死?

而在悦己中,我读到这样一些特别的女子给予我能量。三十岁时为自己举办一个人的婚礼、许下爱自己一辈子诺言的女孩,在巴黎与一百个男人接吻的女孩,不会游泳却游遍海底世界的女孩,在舞台上勇敢脱下高跟鞋唱出自己的胖姑娘……有怀疑也有反对,可是那种执着追求精彩与不平凡的生活态度打动了我,何必按照世俗的套路安排好人生的戏码呢,只要你愿意,每时每刻都可以活的精彩。

距离上一次在日记里写下“放开了拳头,反而更自由”的豁然开朗有一段时间了,而现在,我又再次明白,忙碌并不是生命的主旋律,需要去选择那些让你真正愉悦的事为生命留下纪念,更要懂得为生命留白。

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