我来到这里,和你在一起

爱极了这个句子,我来到这里,和你在一起。简明中,自有一种无需言说的动人力量,多一字,亦是赘言。正如此时,我来到地坛,和史铁生在一起。

园子建筑古朴,也很安静。我走在史铁生的车辙无数次碾过的路,听着他曾经听过的麻雀叽叽喳喳的合奏曲,心里不禁有一阵震颤,似乎能够那般真切的触碰到曾经的存在,于是,我也想到了史铁生曾经思索过的问题,为何而生,怎样活。或者说,我是带着这个问题而来。

在得知余生不多之时,史铁生选择了写作。他说“看穿了死是一件无需乎着急去做的事,是一件无论怎样耽搁也不会错过的事,便决定活下去试试?是的,至少这是很关健的因素。为什么要活下去试试呢?好像仅仅是因为不甘心,机会难得,‘不试白不试,腿反正是完了,一切仿佛都要完了,但死神很守信用,试一试不会额外再有什么损失。说不定倒有额外的好处呢是不是?”

人人上关注了一位清华的学长,关注政治时事嬉笑怒骂文风犀利,后来他不幸患胃癌,一度沉沦,陷入声色犬马之中,大有挥霍时光之意味。想来也是,人生苦短,既知时日不多,何不今朝有酒今朝醉。

这样两种人生态度,让我忍不住去假想,假如自己陷入这种境遇,会是如何。享受,还是坚持信念?

想起了豆瓣九点上看到的一篇,二十年人生计划论VS干活学术一体论。这些天的工作,就有些背离自己的计划,一心扑在工作上,没时间看文章写博客,回到家里连电脑都懒得开,做梦都梦到在学习项目流程。所以才会去想这样的生活的意义。

其实,生活不就是一场浩大的计划么?如果按照别人为你限定好的计划去走,上学时被作业、考试牵着走,上班时被会议、邮件、任务、KPI牵着走,其实没有本质区别的,学校的计划是课程设计、成绩考评,公司的计划是战略规划执行、管理流程、KPI分配,都是别人为你计划。另一种情况是,你不甘于被规划,想要拥有自己来计划的人生,在学业职业中都能找到价值,主动实现而非被迫,能够把每一天都过成自己想要的。并且明白学业和职业也不是生活计划的全部,还应该有一些为之坚持的事情,去发现美好、创造美好。

还有未完成的,就别留遗憾了。马上出发,和那个想成为的自己在一起,直到你们的世界合二为一。

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